Why do we fight so hard against Change

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Why do people fight so hard against Change? What do they fear? If one is aware that one is ill, why would they reject a cure? The answer to such questions seem complicated, especially when dealing with the destruction for a long period of time, but people fear change. They know what it is like being where there are and who they are, even though the behavior is killing the intimacy that is suppose to maintain love. The issue or the fear is attributed to the reality of not knowing who they will become. You see, people become accustomed to the disruptive behavior. It familiar and a second nature. To become better, they have to be willing to take a honest look at themselves and the fear of seeing something that they will not like drives them to continue the destructive behavior, especially when its beneficial.

People who benefit from destructive behavior, do so because of their affinity with selfishness. To change the behavior, to them, means loss of benefits. Yet, where is the benefit in taking advantage of the one you love. To destroy the one you love, is the same as destroying yourself. Yet, they never see those results, until it is often too late to make a difference. The truth is the sadness that they never see their own wickedness. They simply see the benefit of having their own needs secured. What is truly sad, is the love that will never be realized, because they would not change! If any one tries to sell you love, fashioned as destruction, don't drink the water!