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Why is it that so many people struggle with relationships? How are some able to choose suitable partners and others do not? There are many valid questions, yet such questions are most often asked when something has gone wrong. To better understand the dynamics for successful interaction, the question must be directed internally, rather than externally. For instance, do you truly know who you are? If you have no awareness of yourself, you have no clarity about your needs and if you don’t know what you need, how do you go about the selection of a partner to aid you in fulfilling them? Thus, the strategy in building a successful union must began with a clear understanding or knowledge of “yourself”! Therefore, who are you? What do you need? The reason it is essential to differentiate your “needs” from your “wants” is the difference in what you like and what is best for you. To ignore the reality of your uniqueness and your unique needs is to ignore why God allowed you to exist. There is no one else like you in this entire universe, everything you think, feel, and express is meaningful, because you are one of a kind, maybe imitated, but as they say, never duplicated.
Why is it that so many people struggle with relationships? How are some able to choose suitable partners and others do not? There are many valid questions, yet such questions are most often asked when something has gone wrong. To better understand the dynamics for successful interaction, the question must be directed internally, rather than externally. For instance, do you truly know who you are? If you have no awareness of yourself, you have no clarity about your needs and if you don’t know what you need, how do you go about the selection of a partner to aid you in fulfilling them? Thus, the strategy in building a successful union must began with a clear understanding or knowledge of “yourself”! Therefore, who are you? What do you need? The reason it is essential to differentiate your “needs” from your “wants” is the difference in what you like and what is best for you. To ignore the reality of your uniqueness and your unique needs is to ignore why God allowed you to exist. There is no one else like you in this entire universe, everything you think, feel, and express is meaningful, because you are one of a kind, maybe imitated, but as they say, never duplicated.
To discover the truth and value within yourself is the first order of your maturity. To know what you possess, what you bring to the world in contribution is an important process, because when you are confident in the knowledge of yourself, you never enter the world or life in fear, thus, the initial goal is to spend time with you. Develop that essential relationship necessary for being comfortable in your own skin. Once you know who you are and what you require, then you are ready to explore the possibilities for inviting not just anyone, but the right person who can best assist you in fulfilling your blueprint for your life together. Whatever you decide, learn the process of spending time with you and never fear being alone; alone doesn’t mean lonely and by yourself is never a death sentence. The one thing for sure, it better than the pain that comes from our own poor choice. Get to know who you are!
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