Which half of the war are you?

Greeting, so glad you stopped by!

When a relationship goes south, there are many reasons why, some justifiable and others are not. However, no matter what the issues, it is clear that they involve the same two people, who made a personal choice to engage in the relationship in the first place. The difference is, the energy once used for happiness, is being used for destruction, by one person, by the other person, and/ or by both. Moreover, once the war has started, it continues because the madness is being fed. If there is no fuel, there is no fire. So, which half of the war are you and why are you turning your heaven into a hell?

You see, whether you realize it or not, the same energy used for destruction, can be used for peace. All it takes is a willingness to stop the toxic behavior that destroying the love. The same toxic behavior that makes it difficult for you to see yourself. Maintaining love is a struggle, yet the struggle is only difficult when you feed the sickness, rather than the love. No one knows your issues, your needs, better than you and if you don't know how to secure them in a healthy fashion, never be too proud to ask for help. When all is said and done, regardless of the "I'm Sorry", you are the participant in your own happiness or one in your very own, despair. It is never too late to change, therefore which half of the war are you?